ace stuff

labels are hard to think or even care about but im pretty sure i am like... somewhere on or around the ace spectrum

i feel like a bunch of jerks would get up my rear over Well It Is Caused By Trauma So It Isnt Actually True Asexualism but like who cares lol—and noticeably, that isnt even entirely true i dont think. pretty sure it was more of a precipitory event

ace stuff, relationships

my partner (-who mind, we dont call each other partners/girl-datefriends/whatever bc that terminology just does not work for me—just dont have a more convenient word to mention here lmao) and one of her girlfriends and i have been hanging together for a while and... its really lovely!! real gay-trans-polycule times lol

the two of them passed me over to the afk channel of our (non-discord) voice-call server so they could metaphorically get a room though, which i was absolutely fine and chill with, but... also felt really frigid and discomforted after (effectively) disconnecting, and it was just really strange and offputting